How to Meet Single Men
It seems like every time I talk to one of my single female friends who is looking, eventually she says, “I can’t seem to meet any single men -- all the good ones are taken.” If you find yourself in that oh-so-crowded boat with my friends, then read on and discover where to meet single men.
The real trick is not attracting men, it is attracting single men who you would actually like to spend time with, and who will not run screaming into the night if the words “relationship” and “commitment” come up in conversation.
Okay, Tip Number 1 is: don’t bring the words “relationship” or “commitment” up in your first conversation. Find out who this guy is, and whether or not he’s worthy before giving him the relationship litmus test. But let’s not put the commitment cart before the runaway horse. Before you can speak with a man, you have to find one.
“Where can I find single men?” is a question I’m often asked, and here are several answers. In many ways, single men are like Starbucks – you can find them everywhere. If a woman lets it be known that she’s available, men will begin circling her like a school of hungry sharks. These are probably not the guys you’re looking for. Other places that get mentioned often such as museums, sports bars or sporting events will yield single men, but again, you will probably have to wade through quite a few to find some reasonable candidates for a long term relationship.
Online dating can be a source for hundreds, if not thousands, of single men (and married men claiming to be single). Once again you will be forced to scroll through page after page of profile pics and “cute” bios, written in the mode of a direct response ad trying to close the sale and get you to buy. Now you might actually find an interesting guy who hasn’t lied about his profession, finances, marital status, his height to weight ratio, or anything else. Of course, he might turn out to live on the other side of the country as some sites cast a very wide geographical net.
There is another alternative to websites, clubs, and sports bars. Two of Us is a dating and matchmaking service that can put you in touch with a man who isn’t pretending to be someone else, but is content to be who he is. Each one of our members, male and female, gets interviewed in person by our relationship consultants. That way there are never any “phony photo” surprises. Our professional matchmakers establish their own relationship with our clients, and that gives them tremendous insight into which one of our other clients might be a great match.
Your Two of Us matchmaker does the search so you don’t have to spend hours on websites or hours in a noisy, crowded club. You can go about your normal business knowing that they are on the job. Further, you will know that when our matchmakers recommend you get in touch with someone, they will be compatible, sharing relationship goals, interest, and values with you. You won’t have to endure the liars, the players, the idiots or the jerks. If you really want to find a single man that isn’t taken, but should be, then check out Two of Us.