The Heat between the Sheets

It seems like a consistently successful love and sex life can affect more than just your relationship. Indeed. It carries over to all aspects of your life including your mental, physical and spiritual wellbeing.  Here are some tips and ideas to make sure you keep your love life ablaze.

Afternoon Rendezvous

Add the spice of an affair without having an affair…

Even if you don’t make lunch for your special someone, you could try leaving a love note in his/her briefcase or handbag. The idea is pretty basic and the plan is simple. Rather than writing a simple note saying, “have a nice day,” make it hot and steamy. Invite your lover to meet you in somewhere private for an afternoon rendezvous. If going to a hotel is out of the question, then you could always arrange to meet back at home. The important thing to keep in mind is that this is supposed to be a secret; it’s something that the two of you will have to keep to yourselves. It’s a lot like having an affair, only this way you’re not really cheating, you’re only raising the sex appeal in the relationship.

Plan to make the appointment during the lunch hour while everyone else is out and about. There’s an added sense of excitement that comes with knowing that while everyone else is enjoying Chinese takeout, you’re enjoying something much more satisfying.

If You Want to Walk the Walk, You have to Talk the Talk

Erotic talk happens to be one of the most powerful forms of seduction. It can make your love life more exciting, more creative and more fun. It can create more intimacy and definitely improves communication. Your only limit is your imagination. Remember, the largest sex organ in the body is the brain. This is where all sexual behavior begins. By using words and phrases that excite your lover, you can bring both greater passion and a greater sense of connection to your lovemaking. You can even open up doors of communication that may have previous closed by sprinkling your talks with little sex appeal.

Upping Your Stock

Increase your own self-esteem and self worth. Take care of yourself and your health. Put yourself in positive situations where you can succeed and be proud of yourself. Nothing exudes attraction and sex appeal like self-confidence.  When you feel good about yourself you have a little extra spring in your step…and trust me, your partner will notice.  Let him or her know that other people find you attractive.  Do your best to create an opportunity where he or she can see you shine. This will turn up their desire and make him or her realize they’re lucky to have you as a companion.